If you have been in a relationship for a while and now you want to make it more intimate by having sex with your girlfriend you would also want to know whether she is up for it or not. One way is to ask her directly if she is ready for it. This is perhaps the most honest way to do it. However, regardless what our movies depict, we are still a bit old-fashioned about sex which continues to be a controversial subject. So you want to know whether your girl is ready for sex or not without asking her directly then here are some tips for you.
Does She Bring Up The Word ‘Sex’ Quite Often In Her Conversations?
If your girlfriend wants to have sex with you it is quite likely that she will be talking about it more often. She doesn’t have to be very forthright about the topic but she can talk about it in many different ways. For example, if she is bringing up the topic of sex every now and then even when it is out of context it could mean that she is interested in having sex with you. However, it does not necessarily mean that she is really up for it. It only means that there is a possibility. The more she is talking about sex the more likely it is that she is ready for it. But this is not the only hint you need to rely on. There are other signs as well.
Is She Often Appreciating Your Physical Appearance?
If your girl has started talking a lot about your physical appearance off late, it is quite likely that she has started desiring your body. In this case she will start complimenting your looks and your body rather unusually. For example, she will continuously compliment the built of your body and will be very specific while telling you what she likes the most (such as biceps or abs).
Notice Her Responses While You Are Kissing Her
How does your girl respond when you are kissing her? If she is trying to press her body hard against yours it is quite likely that she is willing to have sex. However, this is not something you can tell while kissing in public. You will have to be kissing her when both of you are alone. Her reactions and her touch will be the giveaway of her intentions. But to know exactly whether she is ready for it or not, you will have to make certain advances too. If you feel that she is completely lost in the moment while kissing you can ask her up front if she is ready to take things to the next level.
Does She Get More Physical With You Now?
If she has started making more than usual physical contacts with you, chances are that she is hinting she is ready to take things to the next level. However, before jumping to any conclusion, you will need to monitor her advancements for some time.
When you are in a serious relationship with your partner, sex should be a natural product of it. You should be comfortable enough to ask her if she is ready for it or not. Even if she is not ready she will not mind you asking it.